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Why men shouldn't fear dildos

It is no surprise that men find their partner's sex toys intimidating.

After all, despite what the pornography industry might lead you to believe, very few men can compete with some of the 12-inch rubber dildos stored away in women's bedrooms.

An increasing amount of women are now investing in dildos and vibrators to aid their solo sex sessions. Many of these still use them even when they are in a relationship, but there should be no reason for men to have the hump about this.

This article provides three reasons why men shouldn't be intimidated by a dildo.

Mental attraction

For the majority of women, sex is about way more than penetration. A lot of women love the foreplay, the kisses, the touching, the intimacy a lot more than the actual act of intercourse. They adore the fact that they are making love with someone who they believe respects them and trusts them - as well as finding them physically attractive.

This is often regarded as far more important than how big their lover's penis is and how many orgasms they can give their lover.

Size matters

'Size matters' is a common phrase relating to women's expectations of their lover's penis and is often taken to mean that women would prefer as big a penis as possible.

However, the reality is that some women would struggle to handle lovemaking sessions with a man who is very well-endowed, as it can prove painful. The chances are that if your partner has been with you for a long time, you are completely compatible when it comes to size.

Some women need vibrators to orgasm

Some women find it easier to reach orgasm than others. Some can experience multiple orgasms in a single sex session, whilst others need intense stimulation that only vibrators can provide. If a woman says that she needs a vibrator to orgasm, she could well mean with any man and not just with you - so don't worry!

Rather than be intimidated by dildos, a selfless lover is likely to suggest introducing them to intercourse. This way, men can make dildos their ally as opposed to their arch rival.

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